You take shelter from an extreme avalanche with your hypothermic child. A freezing stranger bangs on the door. If you open it, the incoming cold risks your child's life.

You opened the door. The stranger lives, your child is in critical danger.

The Humanitarian — Prioritizing the lives of all over one's own blood.

You kept it closed. Your child survived; the stranger did not.

The Protector — Protecting your own above any moral duty.