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A dilemma from dilemmas.day

Your elderly parents need a 30,000-euro surgery to avoid chronic pain and being bedridden. You can only afford it by using your 17-year-old child's college fund.

APay for the surgery

Your parents walk pain-free. Your child loses their college fund and must work to afford a cheaper degree.

BProtect the fund

You secure your child's professional future. Your parents will live in chronic pain for the rest of their days.

Sealed 2026-09-06

49%51%
Pay for the surgery368 votesProtect the fund

51% chose “Protect the fund”.

What each choice meant

A · Pay for the surgery

You paid for the surgery. Your parents walk; your child must find another path.

The Grateful Child — You prioritize relieving the suffering of those who gave you life.

B · Protect the fund

You protected the fund. Your child will study; your parents continue to suffer.

The Protective Parent — Your absolute priority is giving your children the opportunities they deserve.