A dilemma from dilemmas.day
Your best friend, a recovering alcoholic, relapses at a wedding and wants to drive home. If you take their keys by force, you will ruin the wedding and destroy your friendship. If you let them go, they risk their life.
ALet them go
You avoid a public scene and save the friendship, but they drive drunk and risk their life.
BTake the keys
You take their keys by force. You cause a scene and they will hate you, but you prevent them from driving.
Sealed 2026-08-09
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Let them go291 votesTake the keys
61% chose “Take the keys”.
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- Spain1 votes
What each choice meant
A · Let them go
You let them go. They drove drunk.
The Non-Intervener — You respect other people's choices, assuming they are responsible for their own actions.
B · Take the keys
You took the keys. They hate you, but they are safe.
The Harsh Guardian — You would rather be hated than watch someone you love destroy themselves.